crisis management
Lolita midlife crisis ...
there's such a thing? So 'the darn Jahr' seventh-like? Is this somehow normal?
Have you had this before? And ... there is something to save?
I am now reached a point where more and more I think about it.
Lolita've discovered I just under 5 years, found great things bought, wardrobe established, combining learned and I simply love.
've Really I have never worn frequently. I was never a full-time Lolita if you will.
the last years I was at least every 2 months and meetings have generally worn as a Lolita-2x per week - usually very casual, but still.
I've always felt very comfortable and really missed it when I have not worn for a longer period. If I was then thrown into tray, it went extremely well for me and I felt great!
But since early this year, this is somehow different ...
I do not have the 'urge' then to wear Lolita. I no longer feel aufrüschen me and with petticoat running through the city to do.
If I leave the last 10 months pass in review, I have all SIX Lolita worn once, to meet twice to two tests, I once privately and once since I moved.
I felt good every time, but I had not won that special feeling that I had the last few years.
Even my black church print dress, my very favorite of all favorite piece in which I am always as the hottest and coolest and best Lolita occurred in the world could not bring back my feeling.
is particularly struck me since my move and start studying in Mannheim.
Maybe it was previously with the to do biggest change in my life? I have taken 3 weeks a Kuro outfit to the university, which went really well and everyone enjoyed. But the feeling still was not there. I did not particularly feel great or pretty - and not special, great or prettier than in my favorite jeans and my mango dress with waist belt, leg warmers and high heels.
Since then, I ask myself the question: "If there are two things where I need the same well and pretty feel I spend on a more money, more for style, some stupid comments and ALWAYS funny looks harvest - why should I have to decide then for this very thing and not for the other? "
My gut feeling I have not yet been deceived before.
But I'm just afraid that it's just a phase and I bitterly regret, if I sell my Lolita pieces.
I think I'm still waiting to have the next 2 months to the end now and trying not to think about it constantly as accurate, but it just come to me. If time comes, Council
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